To my dismay, giving advice usually backfires. Even my own husband does’t take my advice; how dare he! If I had my way, my friends and family would quit their corporate jobs and do something else; it doesn’t matter what, just anything else. Fortunately for my friends and family, and for the world, I am not in charge. Although I do day dream about setting our current societal systems ablaze - splattering some oil, lighting a match, and walking away;